Category: Family

Ward Manor Happenings – 12.18.25

Old Florida Christmas Happenings – Saturday we went to the Old Florida Christmas at Manatee Historic Village. There were some good vendors, but we got there early enough that it felt a little bit empty. We hit a few stalls and walked around. While The Wife and MIL were looking at somethings, I went over to the blacksmith shop. Unfortunately, the forge was having “technical difficulties,” but the curator was making the best of it. Normally we have a chain here in front to protect you from hot metal. However, since the fire isn’t working, feel free to come in and look around. Unlike other museums that say not to touch anything, feel free to touch what you want. You just might get a bit dirty.

Advent Happenings – As previously stated, instead of stocking stuffers this year, The Wife, MIL, and me decided to do advent calendars. We bought three refillable ones a few weeks back and started finding stuff to put into them. This was trickier than anticipated – particularly when we laid down the “no food” rule. For some larger items, we just ended up putting pictures in. Plus, there was the fun of coordinating with your partner to make sure all the boxes were filled. The plan is for the three of us to “open” our calendars on Christmas Eve or Morning. Still working all of this out, since it’s the first year.

End Table Happenings – I’ve been unhappy with my side table by the downstairs couch for a bit now. It’s too small for all the stuff I need to put on it. The Wife and MIL had similar complaints with theirs. Now, the good news was that The Wife’s would work well for me, and mine would work well for MIL. We just needed to get one for The Wife. Looking on Amazon and Wayfair resulted in some that would fulfill one requirement or so, but nothing that was just right. What we ended up doing was picking up a couple ones that were wide enough, but not long enough with the idea of setting them back to back. Plus, it would have more drawer space for all of her bits and bobs. This necessitated a trip to Hobby Lobby for drawer bins, or at least, that was the excuse we used.

Tree Happenings – While I was putting together furniture, The Wife was setting up her other tree. Her first tree is up in her office since we decompressed it. As she was setting it up, there were technical issues with the installed lighting. Needless to say, we now have a new tree in the main room. Unfortunately for both trees, Freya, our youngest cat, has entered into her “I want to mess with all of the ornaments” phase.

Weight Happenings – After two weeks of poor eating, I finally got back on the scale. I undid some of my progress, but not to the extent I feared. Current: 270.8 Tollgate: 250 Final: 200

Ward Manor Happenings – Charlotte Trip – 12.11.25

So, this week’s happenings is going to be around the trip The Wife and I took up to Charlotte NC. Her boss works out of that office, so they are trying to bring her up a few times a year to meet in person and such. This time there was some big meeting of large groups of people surrounding The Wife’s work team. I tagged along because I can. I also brought my work rig so I could work from the hotel room, but I still needed to put in for leave because of the current administration’s hatred for telework.

Sunday – Travel day. The last time we went up to Charlotte, it took us ten hours to get there. This time it took us twelve. And the GPS had us doing some wild detours to avoid the mess which is holiday traffic on I-95. There were some moments where I wasn’t sure if the GPS decided to switch destinations to some place else. Anywhoo, we left Parrish around 6a and got into the hotel around 5:30p. I swear, at least a third of that was just getting out of Florida. People forget how big my home state is on a lengthwise basis.

We also decided to hit the Buccee’s in Georgia. Neither of us had been to one – and it’s been featured on both of our feeds. So, she plugged it into the GPS on her phone – which tells us to take an exit four miles south and take the backroads to get to Buccee’s. Given Waze’s penchant for wild detours to save three minutes, we decided to just take the exit on the sign. Um yeah, we figured out why Waze wanted us to go around. The exit was a fucking mess. I think it took us ten minutes to go the mile from the exit to the parking lot. As for inside? Okay. It was neat seeing it, but it was a bit on the wild and chaotic side. Like Walmart during the wild and woolly times. Not really a fan of that particular atmosphere. Still, the sliced brisket sandwiches were really good, as was the peanut butter cup thing I had for dessert.

Monday – We woke up to 36 degree weather. That is fucking cold. I set up my work rig while The Wife got dressed up for work. Or more to the point, more dressed up than her normal work-from-home attire of leggings and t-shirt. Since it was so cold, I drove her over to the office before returning to work in the hotel room. Which, since I’m technically on leave, I didn’t do much of. I did play some Civ and start on my Lego Optimus Prime. Dinner was from a burger place that did fried deviled eggs. Those were okay. The buttermilk fried bacon was similarly mid. The burgers were pretty decent.

Tuesday – The morning temperature was up to 39, but the heavens were raining down sleet. Which didn’t make it fun when taking The Wife to her office. I pretty much spent the day more bouncing between work and play. Mostly because, unlike Monday, I had meetings that I had to be on. No real work on Optimus because I didn’t want to get involved while trying to bounce around my meetings. We ordered dinner from an Italian place near to the hotel.

Wednesday – We came out to take The Wife to her office to find the Wardmobile coated in ice. Not something we have to deal with much at home. In fact, I can’t remember the last time I dealt with ice since moving from Tampa. Anywhoo, after delivering The Wife, I went back to the room to do much of what I had been doing – a little bit of work, a little bit of Civ, a little bit of Lego. Unfortunately, I also did a bunch of grazing on stuff in the room we brought. I also binged anime series that will show up in a later recommendations post. While The Wife went off to a dinner with her coworkers, I ordered in from a local barbecue place.

Thursday – The day was taken up with bouncing between a little bit of work, a little bit of Civ, and a lot of packing and getting ready for the transit back home. Also trying to clean up the room as we didn’t want to leave a mess for the housekeeping staff. For dinner, The Wife and I joined her longtime boss and friend at Rooster’s which was close to the hotel and then walked down the “walkable area”.

Friday – By Thursday night, The Wife and I were ready to get home. I looked at the weather forecast for Friday in Charlotte. Cold and rainy. So, I thought why don’t we leave extra early to miss the rain and get home sooner? We talked it over and decided to wake up at 1:00am and try to get out of the hotel by 2:00am to miss the rain. Well, we succeeded in getting out of the hotel by 2:00am, but we did not succeed in missing the rain. At least it wasn’t freezing rain, wintry mix, or sleet. Just rain. Which continued the width of South Carolina. We only escaped when we went south on I-95 and put the hammer down. As expected, the trip took us about 10 hours to get home. Then came the fun of dragging all of the stuff into the house and unpacking. Then The Wife and I crashed. On to our bed. With our cats.

Lessons Learned for the Next Trip to Charlotte – I had a garment bag / suitcase that, unfortunately, just fell apart. However, it was very useful in transporting a lot of The Wife’s office clothing. So, we’ll need to replace it. We also need to get The Wife a better “office” backpack – preferably one that can dual as a rolling bag. Personally, I’d like for her to have one that I can get “kitted out” with some of the small necessities so we’re not scrambling. Finally, it’s very hard to stay on diet in a hotel room. We probably need to do some more meal planning with some simple dinners so we don’t Doordash all the time. I also need to bring exactly what I need for breakfast/lunches so I don’t have “spare” to graze on while working. Which reminds me, I need to bring a spare cushion for the chair in the room. It’s just hard plastic. On the plus side, the travel rig worked pretty well.

Weight Happenings – Yeah, between Thanksgiving week and being on vacation/out of town the next, I didn’t even bother getting on the scale to see how much of my work I’ve undone. The Wife and I are back on diets and exercise. Maybe next week I’ll screw up my courage to get back on the scale.

Ward Manor Happenings – 12.04.25

This one might get a little long. Particularly with Thanksgiving.

Family Happenings – Last week we were graced with The Wife’s cousins for a couple of nights. This entailed getting out the air mattress as well as breaking out the new bed frame and setting them up in The Wife’s office. Um, yeah. The frame is 18 inches high and the mattress is probably just as high. Getting it set up in the office was interesting.

The husband was also nice enough to swap out the door handle on the garage entry door for Ward Manor. We use an electronic keypad one that we bought on Amazon. I don’t want to make it easier for someone to get in the house if the garage door is left open. Anywhoo, the one we bough was defective, and the inside handle kept coming off. Multiple folks have tried to fix it to no avail. So, fuck it, we got a new one. I like the new one because it has a switch to activate/deactivate the keypad. This is helpful when we have company or service folks and they don’t need the combination.

Arcadia Happenings – Since The Wife’s cousins were down, we took them to Arcadia last Tuesday. The bad news is that many of the shops weren’t open that early in the week. Helene and Milton did a number on the Arcadia downtown, and they’re still recovering more than a year later. Still, we managed to come home with some finds, including a Dali print. Which we have to figure out where to hang. I also visited a nifty little bookshop – The Dragon’s Den. When I moved down to Parrish, and later moving to Ward Manor, I divested myself of almost all of my books. I still prefer reading on my electronic devices, but I want dead tree versions of some of my favorite books as backup. So, I picked up a copy of Changes, which is my favorite of the Dresden Files series.

Work Happenings – For those of us who have to work on the week of Thanksgiving, our lords and masters were nice enough to let us telework. I wish they would have told us Monday, but hey, I’ll take what I can get.

Thanksgiving Happenings – Thanksgiving dinner was held at Ward Manor this year, and we had a full house. This year, instead of getting a full turkey, we picked up a turkey breast from Publix – essentially the breast section without the legs or wings. The Wife got a brine kit from SIL, and we agreed that I would smoke it. From the “reviews”, that worked out very well. My mom was particularly surprised at how juicy the turkey was even though I smoked it. The Wife also made “deviled cookies” which were egg-shaped chocolate chip cookies with yellow buttercream to make them resembled deviled eggs. I have banned her from making those again because they are too damn good and too easy to just pop into my mouth. Overall, a very successful dinner.

Cat Showing Happenings – The little boy next door is fascinated with the cats. He’s maybe three or four and is always happy to see them on the back porch. This year, he managed to get a closer look to our hairless when The Wife invited the young man and his aunt(?) on to the back porch for a show-and-tell kind of session. Both Boo and the young man were a bit nervous, but it seemed at least he enjoyed himself.

Weight Happenings – Um, yeah. I didn’t get on the scale. I didn’t want to see how much I backslid due to overeating during Thanksgiving week. I am weak. We shall see what happens next week.

Battery Happenings

Earlier this year, I got an Olight Ostation for recharging AA batteries. At the time, I was wishing they also had one that did AAA batteries.

Then, I stumbled across Olight’s Ostation Pro that would recharge both AA and AAA. Cool. Backed it. Expect to get it sometime this year or early next.

Then I found out Olight does have an Ostation for recharging AAA’s. It came in last week right before Thanksgiving. I did some quick rearranging in the home office to put all my major rechargers into one spot. Plus, there’s enough room for the Pro when it comes in.

So, as The Wife looked on bemusedly, I went through and recharged the family’s inventory of AA and AAA batteries. She’s also amused that I added another battery caddy to the mix. Now, I have one for upstairs, one for downstairs, one near the battery station that will hold all the recharged batteries until time to reload the others, and then one final one to hold all my one-shots and my lithiums.

So far, I have only one complaint about the new Ostation. Olight really just did the minimum amount to swap it over to AAA, which means the little lever dispenser is sized for AA, not AAA. This means instead of getting one at a time like I do with the original, they tend to pour out in spurts of two to three.

Ward Manor Happenings – 11.26.25

More Chinese Scanning Happenings – Someone(s) in China has been hitting the blog pretty hard. Again. My guess is the blog is getting sucked up into some LLM. My hope is I’m so entertaining that some guy in China is just going through my backlog. If so, HELLO THERE! Or 你好啊!

Grandniece Happenings – Last weekend, The Wife’s niece and the grandniece showed up so they could do some shopping at the places near Ward Manor. Afterwards, I took the grandniece to the neighborhood park, because it is “awesome”. The grandniece loves running around and climbing on things, but she’s still a little cautious of the highest places. I will say anytime with the grandniece requires vigorous use of muscles and joints that normally don’t get used. And then a couple of days later, my body is very insistent on reminding me that I did such activity. It’s why I buy the large bottles of ibuprofen.

Holiday Decorations Happenings – I hate putting up outside decorations. Well, I dislike putting up decorations overall, but I really hate dealing with outside decorations. The Wife loves decorating, both inside and outside. She has been mildly frustrated with me saying no to outside decorations since we’ve been together. Well, I relented. A little. We have a small magnolia tree in the front. As long as I’m not having to do the hanging, The Wife and MIL are going to decorate it. I think the most I’ll need to do is help with setting up the smart plug so the lights will turn off and on at the right times.

Weight Happenings – I finally broke 270 on my last weigh-in. I doubt it will last with Thanksgiving tomorrow, but the trend has been downward since the Manor went on its current weight loss crusade. I’m very proud of The Wife who is down more than 30 lbs since we started in July. Current Weight – 269.2; Tollgate – 250

Ward Manor Happenings – 11.20.25

Blogshoot Happenings – Borepatch posted about hosting another blogshoot in January or February. I’ve enjoyed the two he’s hosted in the past. Hopefully, I will be able to attend. Got a few things going on during the first couple of months that might limit my availability. If able, I’m certainly taking the Bren, the FPC, and my new/old FEG that has yet to be fired.

There Are No Solutions, Only Trade-Offs – One of my long-standing “projects” is how to store/dispense the enormous amount of cat litter needed to deal with six cats. Copilot recommended the Kane Big Bin, which makes sense. The only issue is lack of wall space in the garage for mounting. So, I need to either figure out how to mount it to a wall rack, mount it to something free standing, or come up with another solution.

On a related note, during my searchings, I came across this Houndsy Kibble Dispenser. A bit pricey, but I will admit, there’s something intriguing about it with the handle dispensing a bowl at a time. Plus, I can see having one of those would solve some problems. Again, it’s a case of “do we want to pay that much” as well as a case of “where do we put it”.

Advent Happenings – Well, we’ve decided instead of stocking stuffers – which is what we normally get – The Wife, MIL, and me are getting three refillable advent calendars. The idea is for the other two to fill the boxes of the recipient. Then, we will all open our advents on Christmas Eve.

Weight Happenings – Well, I definitely paid for my indiscretions on Veterans Day according to the scale. On the other hand, I’m now wearing a size lower in pants. Which means I can now use some of those that I kept in storage. Current Weight: 272.6 Tollgate: 250

That Was An Interesting Storm Season

Okay, technically, the hurricane season lasts until the end of the month. And there’s the superstitious fragment of me that fears I’m tempting fate by talking about it as if it’s done. Still, with the nasty cold front that’s come through Ward Manor’s environs, I’m fairly certain we won’t see any tropicals until next year.

Looking globally, it hasn’t been a slow year. If anything, it’s been an unusually strong year. There were three Cat 5’s. Which, according to Wikipedia, hasn’t occurred since 2005. Looking at what Melissa did to Jamaica brought back the terror I felt when Milton was at its peak and headed straight towards us.

What made it interesting is the entire lack of impacts at Ward Manor. I look back at past blog posts, and it seems we get a busy year, a slow year, a busy year, etc.

Now, I could look at 2025 as the pendulum swing from 2024 – which was extremely active for my AO with three nasty storms in less than two months. However, that side of me that drives my prepper instincts is screaming that I need to be super-prepped for 2026.

I’m hoping for an easy 2026, but I’ve got my list of things to do before mid-May rolls around.

Ward Manor Happenings – 11.13.25

I’ve decided to date these entries to make it easier on the stats end to see which posts are being read. Particularly after last week’s sudden spike from places afar, I’m kind of curious which of my writings are being absorbed into whatever LLM the CCP is building.

Testing The Rig Happenings – You know it’s been a slow week when my lead item is that I pulled out my new and improved travel workstation setup to test it and make sure everything interfaces okay. For the short time I ran things, it all seemed to work. I had to do some unplug/plug cables, but fear my fully armed and operational travel workstation.

Writing Happenings – I finished draft 1 of my isekai experiment. I’m going to set it down for a bit and let it percolate while I go work on the fourth installment of the Irregulars. The isekai is challenging because I have an aversion to info-dumping, and it feels like I need to do info-dump to get enough of the protagonist’s backstory to make everything understandable. So, how much do I explain versus how much do I let the reader discover? My original plan was something in the 20K word range, which allows for some world building and exposition. I’m toying with expanding to 50K and really fleshing it out. This is why I need to let things percolate for a bit.

Weight Happenings – The good news is that I didn’t gain this week. The loss was less than half a pound, but I’ll take it. Progress is progress. Especially now that I can change my carry rig to IWB. Next week? Well, let’s just say The Wife and I went a little wild on Veterans Day. Current: 271.4; Tollgate: 250

Ward Manor Happenings – 11.06.25

Halloween Happenings – We were planning on doing our normal Halloween with a table in the driveway and handing out party favor type toys. Unfortunately, I was feeling kind of crappy Friday, and then topped it off with a more stressful than usual commute home. So, we begged off and handed over what we were going to hand out to the next door neighbors.

On an interesting note, I saw a right-hand drive Nissan Skyline on the commute home. First time I’ve seen one of those in the wild.

Internet Traffic Happenings – This is usually a quiet little corner of the blogosphere. The most traffic I’ve gotten has been when Tam or Borepatch has linked one of my posts. I don’t know what was going on last weekend, but I went from ten to twenty views a day to well over a hundred. I don’t pay for stats, but the free version of Jetpack tells me that three-quarters of the views are coming from China. I would like to think I’m becoming a viral sensation in the dark corners of the Chinese VPN world, but it’s more likely that the Derek Ward blog will now be part of whatever LLM China is developing.

Weight Happenings – Down a bit this week, which is encouraging. Last Weigh-In: 271.8; Tollgate: 250

Ward Manor Happenings – 10.30.25

Family Birthday Happenings – Last weekend, we traveled down south to celebrate my great-uncle’s 90th birthday party. Mom’s vehicle recently had an unfortunate encounter with a strip of tire from a semi and it did a number on her cruise control and some other systems. So, we took the Wardmobile down to the party. Which was the first time Mom and The Brother got to ride in the Wardmobile. It was good catching up with relatives we don’t see much. It was a bit of a long day.

Crafting Happenings – The Wife is working on a crochet project that requires the use of wooden dowels to provide structure. The point of this entry is because she had a dowel that was too long and needed to be cut. The proper tool would have been using my Ryobi version of a dremel, but I don’t have any saw blades for it. Could use the hacksaw or the reciprocating saw, but that could be difficult with the dowel stuck into the current project. So, we ended up using my branch cutter. The Wife finished up with a bit of sanding, and all is well. I should get some better heads for my rotary tool.

Monitor Happenings – Due to issues with my office’s network and the fact that I have to facilitate a large multi-day meeting, I got to work from home for the better part of this week. This entailed me doing some rearranging of my desk to accommodate my work laptop. Now, before I went back to the office, I had a work desk with a work setup and a personal desk with a personal setup. For work, it was all the monitors I could cram on the desk. For personal, I just used a Dell widescreen. Since returning to the office, I moved over the wide screen and let my personal desk become kind of a landing spot for junk while I used my former work desk for personal. So, why am I bringing all of this up? Because The Wife got to see me use my big wide monitor for using – Excel. This has made her contemplate changing up her work station. I have a feeling I might be shifting some monitors around in the near future.

Weight Happenings – I ticked up a little bit in my last weigh-in. Current: 276.0 Tollgate: 250