If I’m going to debate someone, one of the first questions that need to be addressed is this:
Do you believe, or are you willing to concede that I believe, that I want you to have the best life you can according to your needs, wants, and desires?
If the answer is “yes,” then we can have a civilized conversation about the best means of bringing this about. If the answer is “no,” there is real doubt we can even have a conversation. Because there are very few people that I want them to have less than the best life possible. Those generally fall into those who willfully and maliciously harm others.